Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Peace in the cold


Well, now we are huddled up together under two wool blankets on a single-size cot at the Hotel Askunur, next to the Almaty International airport, because it is too cold to do otherwise. When we learned we’d have to leave Kostonai early today, we were disappointed, but figured we’d make the best of it by visiting the open-air market in Almaty. It was too cold to go while we were in Kostonai, with temp staying around -25C. So imagine our surprise when we disembarked in Almaty this afternoon to a frosty -17C. Over the last 2 days I’ve learned that when it is this cold out, it hurts your lungs when you breathe through your mouth. You have to breathe through your nose, to give the air a chance to warm up. It does make your nose hurt, but that’s OK.

We celebrated Gotcha Christmas Night with a redux of The Knight’s Castle (erroneously called the King’s Castle in a previous post), and were joined by the Carbaughs, who had just arrived via London & Moscow. I am now using their real name, with permission, and will add again here how very much we enjoy their company. We were all in a stupor, but that didn’t stop us from getting up and dancing when greeted with an unexpected visit from Father Frost (aka, Santa Clause). Though Russian Orthodox Christmas is not til Jan. 7th, Father Frost seems to be more of a New Year emblem here, as do the decorated trees, lights and garlands that festoon Kazakhstan this week. Welcoming the New Year is a big, lengthy deal here, and apparently on New Year’s Eve everyone will dress up in costume and join together in Kostonai’s city square, regardless of the temps. But last night, as part of a major tour to kick-off his annual gift delivery gig on the 31st, Father Frost showed up at the Knights Castle in full regalia, along with a scantily clad female elf. As first order of business, he directed a game of Kazakh Roulette (where several people choose a shotglass from a tray, and only one is really vodka) before entreating us all to join him on the dance floor. Quickly singling us out as the oddities we were, he tried to get us to sing some American Christmas carols on his microphone, but none of us were drunk enough to oblige him. Instead, we danced with the Kazaks til we nearly dropped (and I've got the video to prove it - to be uploaded when we get home), and then finished off the night with ice cream cubes with chocolate shavings, before plunging back outside for the frosty 5 blocks to our hotel. From start to finish, yesterday was a singular Christmas which I know will never be forgotten by either of us.

As an aside, I would like to note how impressed I am with the division of Christmas and Santa here. It allows Christmas to remain a spiritual holiday for Christians, while allowing folks of all faiths to participate in the gift-giving and merriment. Perhaps this is part of the secret of how Muslims and Russian Orthodox live peacefully, in equal proportions, in this country. I was immediately reminded of my poor mother, and her sad tales of receiving 8-days’ worth of socks and underwear, while her Christian friends made out like bandits on the morning of the 25th. In some circles of our family, it is speculated that this may in fact be the reason that she ultimately married goyim, to spare my sister and I a similar fate (and bless her for it!). Anyway, my point of this paragraph is to propose that it would make a whole lot of sense for all of us, worldwide, to adopt this Santa-New Year’s tradition, and leave Christmas as a quiet and holy birthday party for those who choose to partake. It could be quite unifying.

Both legs of our SCAT flights this trip were on the infamous prop plane, I’m guessing ca. 1960. The aisles were covered with long carpet runners, with occasional patches of the metal floor exposed beneath. The overhead bins were like those on a bus, just open shelves showing wreckless disregard for the fact that contents may shift during take-off and landing. The seats folded down when not in use, and the tray tables were light-weight pieces of tin. Best of all, each announcement by the stewardess on the overhead was preceded by a piercing alarm, which, when jarring you from an exhausted stupor, sounds very much like a siren heralding the planes imminent crash to the icy tundra below.

Despite all that, the flight this morning was actually very peaceful, and so is this chilly, spartan hotel room. As Sal put it, it feels like we’re living in a Jason Bourne movie, and this is one of those quiet, calm moments before the next wanton bloodbath. Or, in our case, this is a quiet moment to bask in the short but joyful visit with beautiful little Aliya – before embarking on another 24-hours of air travel, and facing the crazy month ahead. We’ve got 5 weeks to squeeze in belated holiday visits, baby-proof the house, prepare the remaining paperwork , gather baby items for the 3rd and final trip, and create a happy purple bedroom for our newest peanut. I have not allowed myself to do much prep before, for fear it would jinx things, and now I can’t wait to get to started on it all!

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Gotcha!!!!!

So that’s it! About 20 minutes ago, the judge decreed that we are the legal parents of Aliya Lucia. Better yet, the prosecutor had no objections, so while the 15-day appeal period is still required, it should be just a formality. I am so, so grateful that I cannot do it justice here.

And best of all, we had 2 visits with her today, about 1.5 hours apiece. She is so much bigger and more coordinated, and about 15-seconds away from crawling all over the room. When she first saw us, she grabbed our fingers and had a contented little look on her face. Shortly thereafter, she became more shy & reserved, but by the afternoon visit she loosened up and was laughing, smiling, interacting like a champ. She is such a precious little joy.

Other than that, the only other piece of news is that they changed our departure flight, so we have to leave first thing tomorrow AM (no visit with the girl), and will then have 13 hour layover in Almaty. I’m too exhausted to write more, so will just share some pictures from today. Merry Christmas, Happy Gotcha Day & lots of love to all back home!

Sunday, December 23, 2007

A Morning in Almaty


We are definitely back in Kaz. How can I be so certain? Because I just had beets & pickled cauliflower for breakfast, & Russian MTV was playing in the background with an over-dub of “vintage” Justin Timberlake. Definitely in Kazakhstan.

We completed the first 24-hours of our trip here, and arrived at the Hotel Kazzhol, Almaty, in the wee hours of Christmas Eve morning. Going through immigration & customs in Almaty was a far less intimidating experience than in Kostonai, which was a relief. After stealing 4 hours of sleep this morning, we were very pleasantly surprised by both the shower (hot, clear, high pressure water!) and the buffet breakfast at the hotel (4 different pickled veggie salads to choose from!). The temps are no colder here in Almaty than at home, but there is a nice covering of snow. We will have a little time to wander around this AM before returning to the airport for our flight to Kostonai. I don’t think we’ll get to see Aliya tonight, but am hoping this will be first on the agenda for Christmas morning.

It is nice to be back here (though, I suppose technically, having not been to Almaty before, this is still new territory). Nevertheless, everything has a nice nostalgic feel to it- the architecture; the banners of scrolling, festive colored lights everywhere; the fur-rimmed coats; the ubiquitous Kaz-pop music; the soft rumbling background of Russian voices, and the burst of excitement when I catch a word I know. I’d already forgotten small details, such as the effort put into interior decorating, obvious in all the restaurants, hotels and shops, and the patterns stamped into the sidewalks.

Hopefully by this time tomorrow, we’ll be snuggling the little baby girl.

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Off to Kaz, Take Two (of Three)



Santa did us the courtesy of coming a little early this year, given our extenuating circumstances. Ava just finished opening her gifts, and we just finished packing our bags. My folks will be dropping us off at the airport ~ 3:30PM as the start of the following agenda:

Today: Depart home, 5PMish Saturday
Arrive Frankfurt 7AM Sunday
Depart Frankfurt 1PM Sunday
Arrive Almaty 1AM Monday
Depart Almaty 3PM Monday
Arrive Kostonai 6PM Monday
Court Hearing (send us your prayers!) 4PM Tuesday
Depart Kostoni 2PM Wednesday
Depart Almaty 2AM Thursday
Arrive home (via Frankfurt) 5PM Thursday (or 5AM Friday, Kaz time)
Work - 9AM Friday

We are pretty sure we'll get to see Aliya on the 25th & 26th, and we got her a squeaky-rattley-shiny-fuzzy-chewy duck for Christmas! Please keep your fingers crossed for us that all goes smoothly from here on out. I'm sure we'll post again while we're there with updates & pix. Merry Christmas everyone!

Friday, December 7, 2007

Norah Jones made me cry

I've known this song for years, but it caught my ear in a whole new way this morning on the way to work, and suddenly I was crying out loud.

"Spinning, laughing, dancing to her favorite song
A little girl with nothing wrong
Is all alone

Eyes wide open
Always hoping for the sun
And she'll sing her song to anyone
that comes along

Fragile as a leaf in autumn
Just fallin' to the ground
Without a sound

Crooked little smile on her face
Tells a tale of grace
That's all her own

Spinning, laughing, dancing to her favorite song
A little girl with nothing wrong
And she's all alone "

Oh my gosh, I miss little Aliya so much it makes me ache.
I have a lot to say, since getting home, I really do. The experience has "gelled", and new insights keep springing into my mind at unexpected times. Unfortunately, though, being home makes it a lot harder to find the time to get these insights out of my brain and into the blog, where they belong. I will try to rectify this over the weekend.